Your first dance is one of the few moments of the day when every guest is watching just the two of you. The right song makes it feel like yours. Below are 45 first dance songs we love, grouped by style, plus our tips for choosing one and making the moment look and feel incredible.
Jump to a style
Timeless classics
Songs your grandparents will know and your friends will still sing along to.
- Can’t Help Falling in Love – Elvis Presley
- At Last – Etta James
- The Way You Look Tonight – Frank Sinatra
- Unchained Melody – The Righteous Brothers
- Wonderful Tonight – Eric Clapton
- L-O-V-E – Nat King Cole
- Your Song – Elton John
- Stand by Me – Ben E. King
- In My Life – The Beatles
- Make You Feel My Love – Adele
Modern love songs
The big romantic songs of the last decade or so, perfect for a slow dance.
- Perfect – Ed Sheeran
- Thinking Out Loud – Ed Sheeran
- All of Me – John Legend
- A Thousand Years – Christina Perri
- Lover – Taylor Swift
- Die With a Smile – Lady Gaga & Bruno Mars
- Until I Found You – Stephen Sanchez
- Say You Won’t Let Go – James Arthur
- Yours – Ella Henderson
- Speechless – Dan + Shay
Upbeat and fun
Not a slow-dance couple? Start the party with your first dance and get everyone up straight after.
- I Wanna Dance with Somebody – Whitney Houston
- Signed, Sealed, Delivered I’m Yours – Stevie Wonder
- Ain’t No Mountain High Enough – Marvin Gaye & Tammi Terrell
- You Make My Dreams – Daryl Hall & John Oates
- Crazy in Love – Beyoncé
- Can’t Take My Eyes Off You – Frankie Valli
- Shut Up and Dance – Walk the Moon
- Valerie – Mark Ronson ft. Amy Winehouse
Acoustic and indie
Gentle, personal and a little bit different.
- First Day of My Life – Bright Eyes
- Bloom – The Paper Kites
- Better Together – Jack Johnson
- Kiss Me – Sixpence None the Richer
- Lucky – Jason Mraz & Colbie Caillat
- Home – Edward Sharpe & the Magnetic Zeros
- Golden Hour – JVKE
- Banana Pancakes – Jack Johnson
- Lovely Day – Bill Withers
- Ho Hey – The Lumineers
Country
Big on storytelling and made for slow dancing.
- Tennessee Whiskey – Chris Stapleton
- Die a Happy Man – Thomas Rhett
- Bless the Broken Road – Rascal Flatts
- Then – Brad Paisley
- From the Ground Up – Dan + Shay
- Amazed – Lonestar
- Remember When – Alan Jackson
How to choose your first dance song
Start with your story
The song you heard on your first date, the one you always sing in the car, or the one that was playing when you got engaged will always mean more than whatever is trending.
Listen to the words, not just the chorus
Some famous “love songs” are actually about break-ups. Read the full lyrics before you decide.
Think about length
Most first dances feel best at around two to three minutes. If your song is longer, ask your DJ to fade it out at the right point or mix straight into a party track and invite everyone to join you.
Match the tempo to your comfort
If you’re nervous about dancing, choose something slow and simple to sway to. If you’ve learnt a routine, a song with a clear beat change gives you a moment to wow everyone.
Try a switch-up
Start slow and romantic, then have your DJ drop into something completely different. It always gets a reaction and it’s a great way to open the dance floor.
Make the moment look as good as it sounds
Every Sancara wedding includes our First Dance Lightshow, a custom light show designed around your song, at no extra cost. If you want to take it further:
- Dancing on a Cloud covers the floor in low-lying cloud, so it looks like you’re dancing in the sky.
- Vertical cold sparklers fire up at the big moment for incredible photos.
- Signature Projection puts your names or initials on the dance floor or wall.
Found your song?
Tell us your date and venue, and we’ll start planning a first dance your guests will be talking about for years.
Check your dateFAQs
How long should a first dance song be?
Around two to three minutes is the sweet spot for most couples. Your DJ can fade a longer song or mix into the next track so the moment doesn’t drag.
Can we have two first dance songs?
Yes. A slow song that switches into an upbeat one is a popular choice and a great way to get your guests dancing straight away.
When does the first dance happen?
Usually at the start of the evening reception, often just after cutting the cake. We’ll announce it and make sure your photographer and videographer are ready.
